Safety

Your wellbeing comes first. Use the same judgment online that you would offline.

  • Meet first in public places; tell someone you trust where you are.
  • Never send money or share banking details with people you have not met.
  • Use in-app reporting if something feels off — moderation reviews reports.
  • Protect personal data: avoid posting your address or workplace publicly.

If you are in immediate danger, contact local emergency services. Ondate is a platform for discovery, not a substitute for professional help or crisis lines in your region.